There are youngsters at the age of twelve and thirteen falling in love nowadays. However, same as in marriage, there will be no perfect relationship. Absence of first love is most certainly very devastating experience to most teenagers. The pain that they would feel afterward break up can be very crushing. Discovering how to cope up with failed relationship is very crucial to teenagers. One way to cope up is by reading inspirational quotes about moving on. Following are top options for teens.
"Loving someone is setting them free, letting them go." By Kate Winslet
Kate Winslet is a famous Hollywood star that many teenagers looked up to. For anyone who are not familiar of her, she was the female leading actor in the popular film "Titanic." The film also features love between two people of different state of life. Going back to the quote, she mentioned a very basic rule on love. When it comes to love, people should not be very selfish. Don't keep the person only to yourself, if you love. Set that person free. You will only push him or her go further away if you're holding the one you love in bondage. Moreover, this quote by Herman Hesse has a resemblance with that of Winslet. Herman Hesse quoted, "Some of us think holding on makes us strong; but sometimes it is letting go." Truly, love is unselfish.
"Time heals griefs and quarrels, for we change and are no longer the same persons." By Pascal
Change is the only permanent in this world as they say. We all go on in our lives, we all grow. Each time we grow wiser and tougher. In due time, all wounds would heal. In life, people experience various things that might change the person's perspective and attitude towards life. If we're dramatic previously, we'll be less dramatic and more practical and sensible.
"Getting over a painful experience is much like crossing monkey bars. You have to let go at some point in order to move forward." Unknown
Kids enjoy playing with monkey bars. Crossing over can be a bit painful. Very much like in various failed relationship, experiencing pain and sufferings are inevitable when you want to go on with life. You can get depressed or sob a little. Nevertheless, at the end of the day, you will surpass all of it and be able to move on with life, as you should be.
"Forgive yourself for your faults and your mistakes and move on." By Les Brown
Learning how to forgive is a breath of fresh air. It helps you to unload and move on easier. Having negative thoughts can only slow you down. You will see that negative thoughts will make you bitter. Surely, you are more than that.
"Every exit is an entry somewhere." By Tom Stoppard
Indeed, this is often in fact true. Breaking up does not mean it's the end of the world. Perhaps, you might meet someone better along the way. Never stop believing in love.
Teen love is a memorable experience for everyone. We've all been there. However we all don't possess the same coping mechanism. Do not be too hard on yourself. Perhaps, this can be a chance so that you can know yourself better. Moving on can be easier if friends and family are very supportive. Read and remember always the quotes mentioned above and surround yourself with positive things ?if you would like to? be inspired always.